Hi! I’m Julia and I am passionate about helping people create the lives that they want for themselves. Growing up in a traditional Russian Jewish household, I always thought that the key to my happiness was to get married, have children, and to become a lawyer. Fast forward to today, I had an 8+ year career in tech marketing, working at both Spotify and Tinder, earned a six-figure salary, and famously went viral for showcasing my life as a girl who is 30 and single. Read the Rolling Stone article here.

Through my coaching program, I help clients gain insight into what it is that they actually want in life in order to attract a partner who aligns with those values. So much of what we think we want has been impacted by societal, cultural, and familial pressures. I work with clients to get clear on where those blocks derive from, and how to move forward and create a vision for the life you actually want and deserve.

About Me

At 30 years old, I went viral for showcasing a day in my life as a single woman with no kids, which quickly ignited a larger conversation on the societal expectations placed on women by family, religion, work culture and more. Thousands of women soon flooded my DMs with their own stories on how they live life on their own terms and timeline and showed me how important it is for me to representing this story.

Previously a longtime Tinder employee, I have had ample experience in the dating field both personally and professionally. Countless bad dates, and falling into the good-on paper relationships led me to decide to stop settling and enjoy the in between. My content focuses on celebrating singlehood and the freedom and power that comes with it - the joys of living alone, going on solo dates, sleeping in on the weekends and choosing yourself first.


Recent Press: Newsweek, The View, Rolling Stone, NBC News, INSIDER

Listen to the Podcast

Ex-Tinder employee Julia Mazur hosts Pretty Much Done, a podcast about relationships — focusing on the most important one we’ll ever have: our relationship with ourself. Every week, we explore the healing journeys of relationship and dating coaches, authors, influencers, reality TV stars, and countless other experts who have experienced love and love loss. This podcast is for people who are pretty much done settling for anything less than what they deserve. New episodes every Wednesday at midnight PT, everywhere you can find your podcasts.

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Reasons why you can’t be friends with your ex: There are a multitude but here are some that I boiled it down to in this episode. Energetically, you have to let go of stale old energy to let new energy in.